Sep 12, 2008
So, after a while we decided to finally check the poll results, the one in the left side of our dating site. In you didn't noticed it, the question is 'Why are you here?'.
Most of the people answered 'Sex' - this is not a surprise, most of us like sex.
The other answers are almost equal: flirt, marriage and friends have the same score, more or less then 5%, while chat has a little more over 8%. We were hoping that most off the answers will be marriage, since we're all kin of romantics here, but... let's face it, sex is very important, too.
Anyway, why this new article in the news section?
Let us imagine that that: John, one of our members, is also looking for sex. He might want to get married some day, but for now he just wants an occasional dating partner. He just registered on our free dating community site, using a fake email, fake name, fake address (true, we're all affraid of the spam these days) and he starts sending messages, winks (etc) to the other members hoping that someone will notice him; and that he'll, eventually, get laid.
Well, let me tell you this: IT AIN'T GONNA HAPPEN'! just like this. In fact, speaking for myself here, I don't even chat with people I know nothing about. As far as I know, it could be just a chat bot like Simone.
So this is what you MUST do if you want to find a sex partner
1. Complete your profile: is a must to write your country, city and if possible the state or the street number - after all you want to meet people (for sex, I mean) in your area, I suppose, not in Senegal or who know where.
2. Write an interesting description: stuff like 'tell you later', 'ask me', 'contact me and we'll talk' only mean that you don't have anything to say. Think like a salesman: say something nice and interesting about your merchandise (which is you, btw).
3. Upload your picture: at least one picture of your, full body, though recommended is any as you can - again, think like a salesman and show the others what are you 'selling'. The picture must be clear, well lighten and not blurred. And, of course, don't place pictures with you sad, angry or any other negative emotions.
4. Be nice: when chatting or sending messages, you MUST be nice, no matter what. Nobody likes rude people, in fact if you met one, tell us who he/she is and we'll delete that account in a minute.
5. Be an active member: if you want to increase the chances for the others to find and contact you, then try writing a blog, post on the forum, enter the chat from time to time. People searching the site might find your blog, for example, and from there - your profile page.
The five points above are the basics rules you must follow IF you really want to find a sex partner. Or any other kin of relationship you're looking for.
We really do want for you to find a partner, whatever you're looking for, despite the fact that we might lose you as a member after that... but if you don't follow at least those five basics rules, the chances for you to find even a chat partner are quite slim.
Either way, good luck!