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• Should I talk to my mother about her embarrassing issue?
  My mum is sixty six years old and I think she has a problem. I don't know if she's just stopped taking care of herself or what, but anywhere she sits down she leaves a smell. She's been sitting at the computer all morning and the cushion she was sat on STINKS. She's not an i
• We are both virgins. When is the right time to have sex?
  I'm in my first relationship now (I sort of fell into it by chance), though it is long distance at the moment. We've been officially dating for about 8 months now, but sort of had something going on a while before. He's the only person I fully trust, and he's just an amazing
• Does she want me to wait for her? Should I just move on?
  So its been 3months after the breakup, after the breakup i tried so hard to get her back and all i got was i needed space and i dont want a relationship.So its been 3 months. I kept close to her, and everything is okay i guess? We text at night, and sometimes i talk to her at
• My boyfriend kept his ex's panties. Should I do something? What does it mean?
  Hi everyone, I just found this sight and was hoping for some advice. I've been in a serious relationship for 18 months and we are talking marriage here. My guy is terrific, thoughtful, giving, considerate and sweet. BUT today as we were doing laundary, i found a pair of
• Should I tell my girlfriend I told her secret to my mother?
  Hey. Me and my girlfreind are very close, I love her very much and would never want to hurt her, I really just want to take care of her and I really, really dont want to lose her however I have done somthing which I feel guilty about. She told me she was sexually abused in the
• Ex starting to talk to me again about post breakup ... how can I deal with this?
  My Ex and I started to chat again and it's not awkward anymore. So we are really just talking as friends now. I still love her to bits, but not in the way of I want to be with her all the time, just as in a friend you know? I had lunch with her today and we got talking
• Was I justified in forcing my boyfriend to drop his friendship with another girl?
  Hello everyone. I need some help, fast! So my boyfriend and I have been together for a year and 5 months. We have known each other for 5 years and have been in love for 3 years. He is amazing and loves me very much, and I love him very much as well. For the last 2 month
• Is it unusual not to hear from a guy when he is with his kids?
  Im single mother in my late 30's. For about two months I have been dating a single dad (also in his late 30's) who gets his child everyother weekend. I hear from him everyday by phone or text. We see each other about once a week. Is it normal to not hear from him when he has
• Am I a weird guy because I didn't take advantage of the situation?
  Kal-El here again and I'm dealing with something I need serious help with. There's a girl(let's call her 'Aisha')who moved into my apartment building and transferred to my school 2 months ago. She wasn't from Philly(where I call home) so a took it upon myself to help her
• I think I am falling for a gay guy! Is there anything I can do?
  hey, i need advice, i think im falling for a gay guy! Im a bi girl, and still geting over a relationship which ended like, 5 months ago. this guy, (call him Jon) is the first person ive been attracted to since the break up. we havnt known eachother that long but we go the same
• He isn't calling much anymore. Should I just stop putting in all the effort?
  I've noticed my boyfriend doesn't call me as much as he used to. We've been together off an on about 3 years. Anyway, when I asked him about it he said it's the girlfriend's job to call the boyfriend more often, or that's how it usually goes. I said I didn't think that is how
• He said he can't leave his girlfriend for me. Should I continue what we have?
  Over a year ago I met my boyfriend. We are both divorced with kids. We slowly started dating (I was afraid to start because of the difficult previous divorce)after a half a year we became serious and then he announced to me that he has a live-in girlfriend for 2 years! (we
• Are his wandering eyes enough reason for me not to further the relationship?
  I am young and widowed with no children. My fiance is divorced with two adult children. He was my high sweetheart. He looked me up. I wasn't going to date after the passing of my husband but I thought I would give it a chance with someone I had a connection to in the past.
• I can't get it out of my head that he's lost his virginity to someone else. How can I get over this?
  hey :) well im 15 and so is my boyfriend and we were plaining on loseing are virgenity to each other next year when were 16. But i just found out he had sex over winter break. We were not dateing at that time but it still upsets me thinking thats his thing has been in another
• Not the jealous type, why do I feel so paranoid?
  I have been dating my boyfriend about 2 years and we have lived together for the past 8 months. Everything is fine and we are happy. I am going out of town next week and I have a feeling in the pit of my stomach that something is going to happen between him and one of his
• After a 6 month relationship, I found out he has a live in girlfriend. Is he playing me or does he really love me?
  I met my boyfriednd over a year ago. We are both divorced with kids. We slowly started dating. After a half a year relationship he announced to me that he has a live-in girlfriend (we live in different cities)for 2 years!he told me that he wants to stay with me and left home to
• Should I talk to my friend about what happened between us?
  I have recently developed a close friendship with a guy. We have a lot of chemistry, but until now or relationship has remained platonic. We went out last night and drank a little too much. We ended up back at my place in a few very sensual embraces, but he wouldn't kiss me
• What is going on with my boyfriend? MANY issues.
  [Mod note: Several questions from the same user combined into one.] FIRST: So my boyfriend of almost a yearnd off on a has in the past flirted with women online, trying to get their number calling them baby and stuff, i broke up with him because to me that is cheating even thou
• My boyfriend goes out without me, why does it upset me so much?
  I'm 18 and my boyfriend is 19. I am at university 30 miles away from him. I don't know why, but I really don't like when my boyfriend goes out. I don't like it when I've been at work and when I get in, he texts me saying he is out with his friends, not only because his friends
• Why would a married man want a child with his children when he already has 5 with his wife?
  i have been "seeing" (as i dont consider it dating)a married man for a while now.i live in jamaica and he lives in the england, i see him up to 4 times per year and even tho he is married we talk a lot on the phone when he is home.i go to school at nights and i would be home by
• Scared if I give her too much space she'll find someone else!
  This is my first time here and I need some real advice. My girlfriend and I have been together for over 2 years now. From the time I met her I knew I wanted to be with her but I didn't want her to know because I didn't want to be THAT guy. Long story short we "fooled around"
• Will losing my v-card make things worse?
  Help!!girls guys plz help!I wondering wether to lose my v-card or no today.I beenw it my bf for 3 1/2 months and this past week I've been fustrated about it.I have a free crib meanin home alone and was thinkin about tellin my bf to come n stay da night.his mom has an issue wit
• My boyfriend's thinking of sex and sex only!
  Hi friend, Please help me out to come out of prob. My boy friend always want to have sex with me. We had it but, it makes me feel he is with me only for my physic. when ever i call him or he calls me he used to talk about sex and sex only. in fact i like that, but not often. i
• Gay but lonely....
  I feel like life is going nowhere at the moment and I really need some reassurance. I'm a 19 year old gay male, and not out to anyone except my sister - well sort of (she found a picture of a nude model in my room) Anyway, this is about two things - coming out and gett
• I don't want to get back with my ex, I want those giddy feelings for my current boyfriend!
  i have been with my current boyfriend for a year and a few months. he is an amazing guy. a very good person. but my problem is that i believe i am having an emotional affair. when i was 14, i fell in love with a 18 year old, and he treated me as good as my current boyfriend...
• Do you think he's just distancing himself to insure that emotions don't get in the way?
  I've been seeing a man the past 8 months casually. He has become a business client to me, but we've also been having casual sexual encounters when we have "meetings." A little business, a little pleasure. It's been fun. He would frequently text me or call me...always excited to
• Mothers Day Idea's
  As it is mothers day tomorrow, I want to write something special for my mum to show my appreciation and love for her and how grateful I am for her support... but I don't know what to say... Any suggestions would be highly appreciated Thank you