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• So tired of the dating game...
  Single for the first time in a long time, with no single girl friends to enjoy it with. My girls all have boyfriends, why would they want to go out with me, when their boyfriends will pick them up by car (instead of with me by bus lol) and their boyfriends will pay for the meal
• Please help me decode his signals...
  okay so i'm talking to this guy on MSN, i met him recently but he just moved a few hours away so we talk a lot on msn and through text msgs. any ways before we would talk a lot and stuff, he mostly initiated the conversations, or we would take turns..recently he's been busy and
• Help!!! Should we break up?
  well.. I have been with my partner for nearly 2 years, we live together and have a child! But just lately i'm questioning if we should really be together! He's extremely lazy, he leaves plates and cups lying around, throws his clothes on the bedroom floor and just assumes
• Was my friend's comment justified or am I being too sensitive here?
  A friend of mine said somethin depressing today. I am 4 months pregnant and have not seen them since September last year. Two days ago I sent them an email to all three mutual friends telling them I want to run or hide from people because my nose is now showing (quite
• I just want to forget him...
  im 17, and this is quite a pathetic situation really but i spent all of last summer with my ex, it was the best summer i had, im really strict with the lads i get with andd he seemed perfect for me. first met him in a club january 2009, was toldd he thinks hes a player and i
• Should I take sexy classy pictures for my boyfriend??
  My Boyfriend wants me to take sexy pictures for him but he also said he don't want me to take nudes just sexy classy one like EX1) Me wearing my pjs shorts and a tank top.To be truthful I'm really shy and I only take pictures of my face lol. Not that I don't like my body I love
• She slept with her ex 4 months ago... need advice please!
  Hi, first time poster... in desperate need of some advice. This time yesterday i was the happiest and most content i'd ever been with anyone, i truly believed i'd found that special person, to me she was perfect in every way. Today i'm struggling to come to terms with th
• Why cant I move on?
  Why cant I get over her... Ive gone on dates, had sex with other girls and all I ever think about is her. Do I need to seek help? I cant stop txting her, tho the txts are once a week, Ive pushed her away. I know once I stop txting her she will come back one day, no idea when
• Is this just a crush or have I really fallen in love with a married man?
  i like a man who is 10 years my senior. he told me that he always quarrel with his wife . both of us are married with children. when he look at me i try to escape his eyes for fear that i might give myself away. he doesnt know that i like him. so is this a crush or i really
• I'm getting paranoid that I could be pregnant!
  I am on birth control, i just had my period, i get it on tuesdays and it lasts till sunday at the most. well now its wednesday, my period went away on sunday but now i am bleeding a little again? this has never happened to me, am i paranoid? my friend recently got pre
• Is it ok for us to be together when I am nearly 16 and she is only 13?
  Im 15, 16 in may, Iv got a very close friend who is only 13 turning 14. I like her she she likes me back is it ok for use to be an "item'/together? what are your thoughts?
• Why does my husband still want sex from me if we have been separated for 3 years?
  why does my husband want sex from me if we have been separated 3 years now and says he wants a divorce? we have 4 beautiful children together and he says he wants a divorce because i cheated on him. i take full responsability for what i've done. we have been married for almost
• How do I end this affair? And should I tell my wife?
  I'm a married to a lovely wife with 2 fantastic children. I never thought cheating on my wife,never. But last January i met a single woman during a work project, we have a chat and we exchanged our phones. till there i was doing my job, nothing was wrong for me having her
• My sister is sleeping with the guy she hooked me up with!
  I "had" this crush on a guy that lives in my apartment complex my sister knew I like him and ask him to come meet me he did and we hit it off there. He made it clear he wasn't looking for a relationship so I did the big no no and we had relations early while trying to no him.
• He's giving me mixed signals! Is he just being friendly or does he like me?
  There's this guy and he's giving me mixed signals! I catch him staring at me sometimes, and he's always friendly and saying hello, and he always gives me his fave foods when he has them. And he's ALWAYS teasing me. It sounds like he like me, but I was on his twitter once, and
• Should I tell my girlfriend that I went to my mum for advice about the sexual abuse in her past?
  Hey I met this girl and we became real close, anyway she was sexually abused when she was young by her father, I needed advice about all this and I asked my mum about it, I told her about the sexual abuse. Now I feel real guilty, shoud I tell my girlfriend, I love the girl and
• I have really low self esteem and I'm worried that I'm not the one for him
  Dear Cupid, Im having a normal teen relationship problem, im just gonna shoot out my problems and then ask. Well i been with my boyfriend for a year and few months now. Im 18 and he's 19. I met him on myspace and everything was going so well, we talked on the phone telling
• There have been a few small signs of agression towards me, do I walk away or give him one final chance?
  My boyfriend and I have been getting on exceptionally well and he is positive about our future together. He has made me so happy and is a loving caring person, i couldnt have asked for more. I cant stress how good this relationship was. HOWEVER, whilst drunk he hit me on the
• My partner cheated and I could do with some advice
  I feel it might help me to write on this forum to ask for advice. I have been with my current partner for almost 6 years and we have a 14 months old girl when I discovered she cheated on me. We are not married as both did not want to, but have been living together for 4 ye
• I want to start a family before I get my dream job, but my boyfriend doesn't seem to understand!
  Hi =). i'm kinda new so dont abuse me or anything please, unless i say somthing stupid. I'm 18, and i have been with my boyfriend for over a year now, also 18. basically we're both in love, and well he wants to go in to the Raf, and i am encouraging him too, and i want
• I cant sleep! Does anyone have any advice?
  Basically i cant sleep at all. The doctor reckons its aniexty and ive been put on calming pills, which dont work. I could take louds of sleeping pills and still lie awake. Some nights i do sleep. its totally random. But i feel tired but my mind will refuse to switch off, Im
• I don't understand why he wants this break, its so out of the blue!
  My bf of a year and a half get along great, we never fight and are always really happy together. Our families get along and his family loves me and my family loves him. When I say we never fight... we never, ever, fight. People thing we have a model relationship and they say
• How can I discuss all this without making the situation worse?
  Dear Cupid: I am 20 years old, by boyfriend of nearly a year is 31. for the longest time, we have been happy and telling everyone that "age is just a number". But lately, I've been beginning to wonder if there really are problems related to age and/or maturity level.
• Should I move to Florida with him now, or wait until we are engaged and have a date set for the wedding?
  Do I move now or after we get engaged again and set a date? My boyfriend and I got back together recently and he said he wants to get engaged again in June and get married in December. We both live in Colorado, but he really wants to move to Florida. With his job he can do it
• How do I break up with someone that was never my boyfriend in the first place?
  I have been seeing the same guy for the past 6 months. We go on dates, hook up, etc. and he contacts me every single day. We are not officially dating though and honestly, i'm tired of wasting the energy into something that doesn't seem to be going anywhere. Every day i tell
• Am I doing the right thing by joining the marines?
  I'm going through some issues I'm going to join the marine corp in a year after I complete highschool and I'm not sure if I should go into a relationship would it be worth it I'm 5'3" and joining so im short never get the girls and recently I'm starting to want to have a g
• Should I take a chance with him? I get the feeling this could be too good to be true
  We've been dating three weeks he says that he knows I'm the one he will marry, he's been divorced 9 years. We share Worldview and our basic values are similar. His invited me to meet his family and friends. I feel like I'm being seduced is it too good to be true he tells me